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930
It was narrated that Jabir ibn ‘Abdillah said: A man came whilst the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) was addressing the people on a Friday. He said: “Have you prayed, O So-and-so?” He said: No. He said: “Get up and pray two rak‘ahs.”.

Commentary : The prayer to “greet the mosque” (tahiyyat al-masjid) is one of the Sunnah prayers that the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) enjoined and encouraged the Muslims to do, even during the khutbah on Friday when the imam is on the minbar.
We see that in this hadith, in which Jabir ibn ‘Abdillah (may Allah be pleased with him) narrates that the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) was delivering the khutbah one Friday, when a man entered the mosque during his khutbah, then sat down without praying. The Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) said to him: “Have you prayed, O So-and-so?” This man’s name was Sulayk, as is mentioned another report. The man answered that he had not prayed, so the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) instructed him to get up and pray two rak‘ahs to “greet the mosque.” In al-Sahihayn it is narrated from Abu Qatadah al-Ansari (may Allah be pleased with him) that the Messenger of Allah (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) said: “When one of you comes to the mosque, let him not sit down before he prays two rak‘ahs.”
The Sunnah is  to make these two rak‘ahs brief, as it says in Sahih Muslim: “Pray two rak‘ahs, and make them brief.” He told him to make them brief, so that he could finish them quickly and listen to the khutbah. This is indicative of the importance of these two rak‘ahs.
This hadith indicates that the imam may speak to a member of the congregation and instruct him to pray during the khutbah, and to point out any mistake the worshipper may make..

934
It was narrated from Abu Hurayrah that the Messenger of Allah (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) said: “If you say to your companion on Friday, ‘Listen!’ when the imam is delivering the khutbah, you have engaged in idle speech.”.

Commentary : There is etiquette to be followed with regard to Jumu‘ah prayer, to which the Muslim should pay attention on this day. One aspect of this etiquette is to be quiet and listen attentively to the khatib during his khutbah. The Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) drew attention to that in this hadith, as he said: If you say to your companion on Friday, ‘Listen!’ – advising someone else and urging him to listen to the khutbah when the imam is delivering the khutbah – then you have engaged in idle speech. The word translated here as idle speech refers to invalid and improper speech. What is meant is: you have done something invalid that is not right. This is a prohibition on all kinds of speech during the khutbah, even if it appears to be advising someone else and even if few words are used.
This word – “Listen!” – is mentioned even though it is not regarded as lengthy speech, and it comes under the heading of enjoining what is right. Therefore if the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) disallowed it, then it is appropriate that anything else that may be regarded as lengthy talk, and in which there is no enjoining of what is right, is also not allowed. It was said that this prohibition on telling the other person not to talk applies only if the idle talk that is happening is temporary and will stop, either by itself or if the imam says something to the one who is speaking. But if there are some people who are chatting and are distracted by their talk, and it is not possible to listen to the khutbah except by silencing them, then you may gesture to the one who is speaking or engaging in idle talk with a gesture from which he will understand that he should be quiet. If the gesture is not effective, then you may say brief words, because the reason for which it is forbidden to say, “Listen!” is so that people will be able to hear the khutbah.
This hadith contains a warning against not listening attentively to the khutbah and being distracted by other things. This highlights the importance of keeping quiet during the Friday khutbah and listening to the imam..

935
It was narrated from Abu Hurayrah that the Messenger of Allah (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) mentioned Friday and said: “On Friday there is an hourin which there is no Muslim who happens to be standing in prayer at that time, asking Allah (may He be exalted) for something, but He will grant it to him.” And he gestured with his hand to indicate how short this hour is..

Commentary : Allah (may He be glorified and exalted) has favoured Friday over all other days, because of the momentous events that took placeon that day, and because of what this day contains of great virtues.
In this hadith, the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) speaks of one of the virtues of Friday, which is that on that day, there is anhour during which Allah (may He be glorified and exalted) has ordained that any supplication offered will be answered. This applies to the one who tries and aims to offer supplication at this time, and succeeds in that, seeking to repent and ask for forgiveness, asking his Lord (may He be glorified) for the blessings of this world and the hereafter, whilst doing acts of worship, seeking thereby to draw close to Allah (may He be glorified and exalted), offering supplication or waiting for the prayer – for the one who is waiting for the prayer is in a state of prayer, and this is what is meant by “standing in prayer” in the hadith. It was also said that it may be that what is meant by prayer here is supplication, and that what is meant by standing is persevering and striving, not standing in a literal sense.
Whoever does that, Allah (may He be glorified and exalted) will answer him and give him what he has asked for, or something better than that, or He may ward off harm from him, or He may delay it for him until the Day of Resurrection. And the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) gestured with his hand to indicate how short that time is, for it is very brief.
There was a difference of scholarly opinion as to when this hour is, and there are many views, the strongest of which are two:
1.. That it lasts from when the imam sits on the minbar until the end of Jumu‘ah prayer.
2.. That it is after ‘Asr..

936
It was narrated that Jabir ibn ‘Abdillah said: Whilst we were praying with the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him), a camel caravan carrying food arrived, so the people left and went to the caravan, until there was no one left with the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) except twelve men. Then this verse was revealed: {But when they saw a transaction or a diversion, [O Muhammad], they rushed to it and left you standing} [al-Jumu‘ah 62:11]..

Commentary : Allah (may He be glorified and exalted) was pleased with the companions of the His Messenger (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him), and He praised them in His Book, yet despite that, Allah (may He be glorified and exalted) rebuked them for the shortcomings of some of them and their being distracted by worldly matters from matters of worship in some instances.
In this hadith, Jabir ibn ‘Abdillah (may Allah be pleased with him) narrates that whilst they were praying with the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) – and in a report narrated by Muslim it says that the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) was standing and delivering the Friday khutbah – a camel caravan arrived. This refers to camels which were used to carry goods, and that caravan was bringing food, grains and other things. So the people left the khutbah and went to the caravan, until only twelve men remained with the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him). Perhaps this incident occurred at the beginning of Islam, when people had only recently left Jahiliyyah behind, before Islam had become firmly entrenched in their hearts. Then this verse was revealed: {But when they saw a transaction or a diversion, [O Muhammad], they rushed to it and left you standing} [al-Jumu‘ah 62:11]. In other words, they went to it and left you standing in Jumu‘ah prayer, with only a few men still around you. They included Abu Bakr and ‘Umar (may Allah be pleased with them), and some of the earliest Muslims, such as ‘Uthman, ‘Ali, Talhah, al-Zubayr, Sa‘d ibn Abi Waqqas, ‘Abd al-Rahman ibn ‘Awf, Abu ‘Ubaydah ibn al-Jarrah and Bilal. This was a rebuke from Allah (may He be glorified and exalted) to the companions of the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) for forsaking worship and abandoning it for the sake of some worldly matter.
Then Allah (may He be glorified) urged them to focus on the trade of the hereafter, and to be certain that there is no provider in the true sense of the word except Him (may He be glorified). Therefore He said: {Say, “What is with Allah is better than diversion and than a transaction, and Allah is the best of providers”} [al-Jumu‘ah 62:11]. In other words, the reward for prayer and standing fast with the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) is better than any diversion or transaction. They responded to the command of Allah (may He be exalted) and they (may Allah be pleased with him) bought and sold, and engaged in trade, but when it was time to carry out one of their duties to Allah, no trade or sale could divert them; in other words, no worldly matter, adornment, pleasure or profit from trade could distract them from remembering Allah or from fulfilling their duty towards Him (may He be glorified and exalted). Thus they gave precedence to obeying their Lord and doing what He wants and loves over what they wanted and loved. Therefore Allah (may He be exalted) describes them as {men whom neither commerce nor sale distracts from the remembrance of Allah and performance of prayer and giving of zakah} [al-Nur 24:37]..

937
It was narrated from ‘Abdullah ibn ‘Umar (may Allah be pleased with him) that the Messenger of Allah (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) used to pray two rak‘ahs before Zuhr and two afterwards; two rak‘ahs after Maghrib in his house; and two rak‘ahs after ‘Isha’. And after Jumu‘ah, he did not offer any prayer until he left, then he would pray two rak‘ahs (at home)..

Commentary : The Sahabah (may Allah be pleased with them) were very keen to follow the Sunnah of the Messenger of Allah (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) and teach it to those who came after them.
In this hadith, ‘Abdullah ibn ‘Umar mentions some of the regular Sunnah prayers at the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) always did. They are:
o two rak‘ahs before Zuhr and two afterwards. In Sahih al-Bukhariit is narrated from ‘A’ishah that the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) never omitted four rak‘ahs before Zuhr. Thus the total number of regular Sunnah prayers connected to Zuhr is six rak‘ahs.
o two rak‘ahs after Maghrib, which he used to pray at home, not in the mosque.
o and two rak‘ahs after ‘Isha’. According to a report in al-Sahihayn, he used to offer these prayers at home too.
Then ‘Abdullah ibn ‘Umar (may Allah be pleased with him) stated that the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) did not offer any prayers in the mosque after Jumu‘ah; rather he would pray two rak‘ahs after he went home. What Ibn ‘Umar (may Allah be pleased with him) meant by the words “until he left” is that there was an interval between Jumu‘ah and the supererogatory (Sunnah) prayers, so that it would not be thought that Jumu‘ah consisted of four rak‘ahs. In Muslim it is narrated that Abu Hurayrah (may Allah be pleased with him) said: The Messenger of Allah (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) said: “When one of you has prayed Jumu‘ah, then let him pray four [rak‘ahs] after that.”
This hadith highlights the keenness of the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) to offer supererogatory [Sunnah] prayers at home..

938
It was narrated that Sahl ibn Sa‘d said: Among us there was a woman who would plant beets in the streams in a field of hers, then on Friday she would pull up the roots of those beets and put them in a pot, then she would add a handful of ground barley and cook it, and the roots of the beets would be like meat. We would leave Jumu‘ah prayer and greet her with salaam, and she would bring this food to us, and we would eat it. We used to look forward to Friday because of this food of hers..

Commentary : This hadith highlights how content the companions of the Messenger of Allah (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) were, despite the hard life they lived. Sahl ibn Sa‘d (may Allah be pleased with him) narrates that a woman – according to another report in Sahih al-Bukhari, she was an old woman – used to strive hard to prepare food for the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) and his companions (may Allah be pleased with them) every Friday. This was a habit of hers. She would plant beets in the streams of her field, and on Friday she would pull up the roots of the beet plants, place them in a pot and add some ground barley, then she would mix them and cook them. The roots of the beet plants were like meat, meaning that through cooking that they produced some broth. What is meant is that these beets were eaten by them instead of meat. They used to pass by her after Jumu‘ah, and she would offer them these beets and they would eat that food. Sahl ibn Sa‘d (may Allah be pleased with him) said that they used to look forward to Friday because of this food of hers, because the Sahabah – especially the Muhajirin (may Allah be pleased with them) – did not become rich until after Allah granted conquests to them. After the conquests, wealth became abundant, but before that most of the Sahabah were poor.
This hadith highlights how content the Sahabah (may Allah be pleased with them) were with their lot, and they were happy with the little they had.
It also indicates that the Muslim should not look down on any favour, no matter how small..

942
‘Abdullah ibn ʿUmar (may Allah be pleased with them) narrated: “I went into battle alongside the Messenger of Allah ﷺin a place close to Najd. We faced the enemy and lined up in rows [in preparation] for them. Then, the Messenger of Allah ﷺstood to lead us in prayer, thus, one group stood with him to pray while the other group faced the enemy. The Messenger of Allah ﷺbowed with those who were with him and offered two prostrations. Then, they left and took the place of the group that had not prayed. They joined the prayer with the Messenger of Allah ﷺ and he bowed with them once and offered two prostrations. Then, he ﷺconcluded the prayer with the tasleem. Thereafter, every one of them stood [in prayer independently], bowed once, and offered two prostrations..

Commentary : The Prayer of Peril (Fear) was legislated so that the Muslims could fulfil the obligation of prayer without exposing themselves to the danger of being killed while fighting the enemies of Allah. It is intended to lighten the burdens of the Muslims who are engaged in the fight, so their enemy does not take them out during their prayer.

This hadeeth transmitted by ‘Abdullah ibn ʿUmar (may Allah be pleased with them) explains one of the forms of the Prayer of Fear. He reports that he went into battle and war alongside the Messenger of Allah ﷺin Najd, which refers to the expanse of Arab lands between Hijaaz and Iraq. Najd today nests in the heart of the Arabian Peninsula, the middle of which is the city of Riyadh, the capital of the Saudi Arabian Kingdom. It consists of many provinces, including al-Qaseem, Sadeer, al-Aflaajj, al-Yamaamah, al-Wushum, and others.

He said: “We faced the enemy” – which means, they turned toward the enemy and paralleled them, and they established rows facing their direction. After that, the Messenger of Allah ﷺstood in prayer as the time for prayer had commenced, and the battle and fighting had not yet started. A group joined the Prophet ﷺ and prayed with him while the other group stood facing the enemy, guarding those who are [performing the] prayer. As the Messenger of Allah ﷺfinished the first unit of the prayer with the first group, they went to the place of the other group that had not yet prayed. Then, the group that was guarding came forth and joined the Messenger of Allah ﷺ in the prayer, so he led them in one unit of prayer. Then, he concluded the prayer with the tasleem. Thereafter, every one of them continued the prayer individually and prayed one more unit. This means that every group prayed one unit with the Prophet ﷺ, then they stood after the Prophet ﷺ performed the tasleem to begin the other unit.

Many forms of the Prayer of Peril (Fear) have been relayed, and this is one of the reports that describes how the Prophet ﷺ prayed it. He had prayed it differently on different days, doing what was most cautious for prayer and clearest for defence. Thus, it (the prayer) was offered in many ways, but they are congruent in form.

The hadeeth shows the keenness of the Prophet ﷺ to perform the obligatory prayer within its time under any circumstance, even in times of war. It indicates the importance of congregational prayer, because if it was legislated during times of fear, then one must firstly be attentive to it in [times of] peace and contentment.

From the other benefits that we can conclude from this hadeeth is that Muslims should be cautious of the enemy during the time of battle in every way possible.

Furthermore, it shows that the religion commands the worship that protects the person before Allah in the Hereafter, and it commands betaking to that which protects the believer in this world.

It demonstrates how Islam made the fulfilment of prayer easy on those who are accountable in Islam [i.e., they are obligated to offer the five prayers]. .

943
“Whenever [the believers] are engaged in indiscriminate combat with the disbelievers, it is permissible for them to pray standing.” Ibn ʿUmar (may Allah be pleased with them) added on the authority of the Prophet ﷺ: “If the enemy’s numbers are greater than that [of the believers], then they may pray while standing or riding [on their mounts.]” .

Commentary : The Prayer of Peril (Fear) was legislated so that the Muslims could fulfil the obligation of prayer without exposing themselves to the danger of being killed while fighting the enemies of Allah. It is intended to lighten the burdens of the Muslims who are engaged in the fight, so their enemy does not attack or take them out during their prayer.

This hadeeth transmitted by ‘Abdullah ibn ʿUmar (may Allah be pleased with them) explains one of the forms of the Prayer of Peril (Fear) upon the encounter of the two armies. This is an abridged portion of another hadeeth dealing with the description of the Prayer of Peril (Fear).

The intended [conveyance in meaning] of his statement, “Whenever they are engaged in indiscriminate combat with the disbelievers,” is that whenever the Muslims engage in direct combat with the disbelievers, then it is possible for them to pray standing while satisfying the gestures for bowing and prostration; thus, they do not bow or prostrate. The [gesture for] prostration [should be] lower than bowing - so that it may be distinguished.

If the enemy’s [presence] increases to [the point of] intensified peril (fear) - [i.e.] to which it is impossible for the Muslims to pray standing in place, nor form a row – then they should pray standing on their feet, or while riding upon their mounts. This is because the injunction of dismounting from the top of their beasts becomes waived due to the peril [at hand]. They may pray facing the Qiblahor any other point of direction, according to [the best of] their ability.


This prayer is known as the Prayer of Sword Duelling, which is a name that was given because it is performed while attacking with swords and other weapons of war while continuing without any interruption.

[What is] meant [here] is that whenever the peril (fear) is immense and the two armies are in close proximity via combat, and the Muslims are not safe from the enemy’s attack if they were to turn their backs to them, or [if the Muslims] become fragmented, then it is not permissible for them to delay the prayer beyond its time. But rather, they should pray it while riding or walking - [in] any way they are able to; otherwise, they should delay the prayer to a time [when] the danger dissipates and after the battle has subsided. [This is] because in Saheeh Muslim, [it is narrated] on the authority of ‘Abdullah ibn Masʿood(may Allah be pleased with him) [that] he said: “The polytheists prevented the Messenger of Allah ﷺ from performing the ‘Asr prayer until the sun became reddish - or yellowish. The Messenger of Allah ﷺ commented on that by saying, “They diverted us from performing the middle prayer (ʿAsr), may Allah fill their innards and graves with fire.”

From the other benefits that we can conclude from this hadeeth is that Muslims should be cautious of the enemy during the time of battle in every way possible. Furthermore, it shows how Islam made the fulfilment of the obligatory prayer easy on those who are accountable in Islam [i.e., they are obligated to offer the five prayers]..

944
It is narrated on the authority of Ibn ʿAbbaas(may Allah be pleased with them) that the Prophet ﷺ led [the Prayer of Peril (Fear)], and the people stood [behind] him [in prayer]. Then, he ﷺsaid the opening glorification (“Allahu Akbar”), and they said it after him. [Next], he ﷺbowed and a group of people from amongst the congregation bowed with him ﷺ.Then, he ﷺ prostrated and [that] group prostrated with him ﷺ.[After this], he rose for the second rakʿah, then those who prostrated stood and guarded their fellow soldiers from any attack. Then, the other group joined the prayer and bowed and prostrated with him ﷺ. By this, all of them were in prayer, but they guarded each other in rotation..

Commentary : The five daily prayers are obligatory upon every accountable Muslim, and it is the pillar (backbone) of the religion; thus, it is not possible [for] any Muslim to leave off performing them under any circumstances, be the person is settled as a resident or traveling, and whether during times of peace or war. The significance of the five prayers is evident in Islam that mandates its performance – even in war but with ease. Many narrations have been relayed on how the Prayer of Peril (Fear) is performed, which is the prayer that is performed in the presence of the enemy.

This hadeeth explains one way of how to perform the Prayer of Peril (Fear) and describes how the Prophet ﷺperformed it. ‘Abdullah ibn ʿAbbaas(may Allah be pleased with them) reports that the Prophet ﷺ stood up and prepared for the Prayer of Peril (Fear) at one of the battles, and that all of the combatants stood up [also to perform] the prayer with him ﷺ. This is an indication that he did not divide the army at the time of the prayer.Then, the Prophet said the opening glorification (takbeer) [thereafter]. All who were present with the Prophet ﷺ said the opening glorification [as well]. When the Prophet made the first bow, a group of them bowed with him ﷺ, and they followed his lead when he ﷺ prostrated. All the while, the rest remained standing [and] did not bow nor prostrate - [but rather] guarded whoever bowed and prostrated with the Messenger ﷺ. As such, those who were gathered remained standing in the prayer without bowing or prostrating until the first group completed the performance of the first unit with the Imaam of the prayer. The Prophet ﷺthen rose for the second rakʿah (unit), and [thereafter], those who completed the first unit of prayer with the Prophet ﷺ paused [their prayer] and fell behind to the place of the second row, while the group who did not bow or prostrate with him ﷺ in the first rakʿahcame [forward]. [Afterwards], they bowed and prostrated with him ﷺin the second unit of prayer while those who prayed with the Prophet ﷺin the first rakʿah did not bow nor prostrate [in the second unit of prayer]. Therefore, each group completed one unit of the prayer with the Imaam، while the Imaamhimself completed two units of prayer. As such, all of them were in prayer all the while they guarded each other in rotation.

It was said that this form [of prayer] is performed if the enemy is in the direction of the Qiblah with respect to the Muslims. In this case, the Imaam (of the prayer) places the people into two rows behind him, and it (the prayer) is performed in the elaborated manner previously mentioned. al-Bukhaaree and al-Nasaa’ee narrated on the authority of Ibn ʿAbbaas(may Allah be pleased with them) that the Prophet ﷺperformed this prayer in this way at a place near Dhu al-Qarad, [which] is about a one day’s distance from al-Madeenah, near the lands of Ghaṭfaan. It is located between Khaybar and al-Madeenah, thirty kilometres away from al-Madeenah..

945
Jaabir ibn ‘Abdullah (may Allah be pleased with him) narrated: “On the day (of the battle) of the Trench, ʿUmar ibn al-Khattab came and began cursing the disbelievers of Quraysh. Then he said: “O Messenger of Allah! I did not perform the ‘Asr prayer until the sun was on the verge of setting.” The Prophet ﷺ replied, “By Allah! I, too, have not prayed.” Thereafter, Jaabir ibn ‘Abdullah reports that he ﷺ went down to Buṭhaan, performed ablution, and prayed ‘Asr after the sun had set, and then performed the Maghrib prayer afterwards..

Commentary : Prayer is the pillar (backbone) of the religion, and it is the greatest of the physical pillars of Islam. Its observance is among the most splendid of religious rites. The significance of the [five] prayers is evident [in] that [no one may] leave off performing them even during battle.

In this hadeeth, Jaabir ibn ‘Abdullah (may Allah be pleased with them) reports [on] some of the events [that occurred during the] Battle of the Trench - [which occurred in] the fourth or fifth year after Hijra, after the disbelievers of Quraysh and the Arabs and Jews, who allied with them, joined forces in fighting the Prophet ﷺ and his Companions in al-Madeenah.

Jaabir reports that ʿUmar ibn al-Khaṭṭab(may Allah be pleased with him) came to the Prophet ﷺ after sunset on the day [they dug] the trench, cursing the disbelievers of Quraysh because they [were] the cause of preoccupying the believers with digging [instead of performing] the prayer until the time of ‘Asr elapsed. Accordingly, ʿUmar did not pray until the sun was on the verge of setting. [Furthermore, Jaabir] reported that the Prophet ﷺdid not pray ‘Asr until the sun was about to set, and that it was the motive [for] ʿUmar’s anger and reviling. When the Prophet ﷺ learned of the cause of what was troubling ʿUmar [the delay in performing the prayer], he ﷺ - [who] is the truthful and supported by the truth - swore, [stating] that he also did not pray hitherto, reassuringly and pleasantly, [in order] to [ease] ʿUmar who was troubled [over] the matter.

Afterwards, he ﷺ set off to Buṭhaan - [which] is a valley by al-Madeenah to the south - where he ﷺperformed ablution and prayed ‘Asr after the sun set, [thereafter] he performed the Maghrib prayer.

From the other benefits that we can conclude from this hadeeth is that Muslims should strive to make up any missed obligatory prayers. It also shows that it is permissible to invoke Allah against the oppressor, because the Prophet ﷺ did not censure against [anything] ʿUmar [said]. Finally, it shows us the keenness of the Companions (may Allah be pleased with them) to pray on time, [and that] it was of great importance to them.
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946
It is narrated on the authority of Ibn ʿUmar (may Allah be pleased with them) that when the Prophet ﷺ returned from the Battle of the Confederates, he said, “None should perform the ‘Asr prayer, except at Bani Quraydhah.” The time of ʿAsr entered while some of the Companions were on the way to Bani Quraydhah; thus, some of them said, “We are not praying until we arrive there,” while some of the others replied, “We’re [going] to pray [here], because the Prophet ﷺhad not intended what the [aforementioned group] had come to understand.” The incident was mentioned to the Prophet ﷺ, and he did not admonish anyone of them..

Commentary : The Messenger ﷺ was the reference of authority for the Companions in all of their affairs. Whenever they disagreed over any issue, they would refer the case to him ﷺ and to which he ﷺ would either elucidate what was ambiguous [on the matter] or approve their exercised judgement over the subject matter.

In this hadith, ‘Abdullah ibn ʿUmar (may Allah be pleased with them) reports that when the Prophet ﷺ returned to al-Madeenah after the conclusion of the Battle of the Confederates - also known as: The Battle of the Trench, [which occurred in] the fourth or fifth year after Hijra, after the disbelievers of Quraysh and the Arabs and Jews who allied with them joined forces in fighting the Prophet ﷺ and his Companions in al-Madeenah – he ordered his Companions by saying, “None of you should perform the ‘Asr prayer, except at Bani Quraydah.”.

Banu Quraydah is a group of Jews that used to live in al-Madeenah. Not only did they violate their treaty with the Muslims, but also allied [themselves] with the polytheists who we were besieging the Muslims. They contrived [a plan] to [allow the besiegers] to enter into al-Madeenah from the area of their abodes but their plan failed.

Al-Bukhaaree narrated on the authority of ʿAishah(may Allah be pleased with her) that after the Messenger ﷺreturned [to al-Madeenah] on the Day of the (Battle of) Trench, he laid down his weapons and [went to] bathe. Then, Jibreel, whose head was covered in dust, came to him ﷺ and said, “[Have] you placed down your arms? By Allah, I have not lowered mine yet!” The Messenger ﷺ then said, “So where to?” [To that], Jibreel [replied], “Look here!” and pointed towards the location of Bani Quraydah. ʿAishah went on to say: “Then the Messenger ﷺ went out towards them.”

After discovering the treason of the Jews, the Prophet ﷺordered his Companions to go out and fight them, emphasizing to them not to pray ʿAsr [anywhere] except there. However, the time of the ‘Asr prayer entered before they arrived to their destination. This caused the Companions to differ; thus, some of them said, “We should not pray until we arrive [at] Bani Quraydah,” because they understood the command of the Prophet ﷺ by [its] explicit wording. As such, they refused to pray anywhere except there due to the command of the Prophet ﷺ, thus, deemed praying ‘Asrbefore they arrived there as an act of disobedience. On the other hand, another group believed that they should pray right away. This is because they did not take the words of the Prophet due to the command of the Prophet ﷺaccording to its apparent meaning. They opined that the intended [meaning conveyed] from his mode of expression was to signify the urgency in departing towards Bani Quraydah. As a result, when the time of ʿAsr entered - they agreed to attain the excellence of the prayer by praying it in its earliest time, and [again] by going to Bani Quraydah. This way they would obtain double the reward by praying on time and obeying the command of the Messenger ﷺ in arriving there. For this reason, they prayed. And after they finished, they continued their journey and joined the other Companions who were ahead of them.

When the Messenger ﷺ learned of this incident, he ﷺ did not admonish the two groups. He did not reprimand those who prayed on the way in spite of not keeping his command, because [of what] they understood of him ﷺ [i.e., the mode of expression] alluding to haste. Nor did he admonish those who delayed the prayer beyond the earliest time because they understood the prohibition based upon its apparent meaning.

From the other benefits that we can conclude from this hadeeth is that Muslims should refrain from reproaching others for following a view on an issue in which there is a valid difference of opinion.

Finally, it teaches us to be keen to perform the five obligatory prayers at the beginning of their due time.
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948
‘Abdullah ibn ʿUmar (may Allah be pleased with them) narrated: “ʿUmar bought a jubbah (i.e., a long outer garment resembling an open coat, having long sleeves) made of istabraq from the marketplace and took it to the Messenger of Allah ﷺ and said, “O Messenger of Allah! Take this and adorn yourself with it during ‘Eid and [when you] greet or receive delegations.” The Messenger of Allah ﷺreplied, “On the contrary, this garment [is worn by those] who have no portion [in the Hereafter].” So, ‘Umar abided therein, [as to] what Allah willed [i.e., a period of time passed thereafter]. Then, the Messenger of Allah ﷺ sent to him a jubbah made of silken brocade. [Afterwards], ‘Umar received it, and came to him ﷺ with it and said, “O Messenger of Allah ﷺ ! Verily, you said that this garment is [worn by those] who have no portion [in the Hereafter]”, yet you sent me this jubbah.” [To which], the Messenger of Allah ﷺ replied, “Sell it or fulfil your needs by it.” .

Commentary : It is desirable, for the Muslim, to adorn themselves on religious holidays and Fridays, and when greeting (receiving) people, and the like. But, all of this is subject to conditions, so [that] the adorning per se not to be what Allah, Exalted be He, and His Messenger ﷺforbade.

In this hadeeth, ‘Abdullah ibn ʿUmar (may Allah be pleased with them) reports that ʿUmar came to the Prophet ﷺ with a woven jubbah made of istabraq [that was] sold [to him] in the marketplace. The jubbah is similar to the cloak [i.e., that it is worn as an outer garment] whereas, istabraq is a type of coarse texture i.e., thick silk (similar to that of a brocade) that was made and purchased for the purpose of adorning oneself for religious festivals, Fridays,and greeting (or receiving) delegations of people. Oftentimes, those who came in these arriving parties belonged to leaders of tribes and the like.

However, the Prophet ﷺ said to ʿUmar (may Allah be pleased with him), “On the contrary, this garment [is worn by those] who have no portion [in the Hereafter].” Here we see that he ﷺ elucidated for ʿUmar that no men wear silk, except those who have no share in relation [of possessing] reverential fear of Allah - The Mighty and Majestic - in this world, [nor] Allah’s reward in the Hereafter.

This statement was made to show his strong condemnation and interdiction against men wearing silk [in their lives]. It is, [however], permissible for women to wear silk as demonstrated in other authentic narrations.

As for the statement of ‘Abdullah ibn ʿUmar’s(may Allah be pleased with them): “So, ‘Umar abided therein, [as to] what Allah willed”: [this] means that a period of time passed since the [aforementioned] incident with ʿUmar (may Allah be pleased with him) occurred.

Then, The Prophet ﷺ sent for ʿUmar (may Allah be pleased with him) a garment made of silk. But then, ʿUmar (may Allah be pleased with him) remembered the words of the Prophet ﷺwith reference to the first time [i.e., the aforementioned story]. So, he returned to him ﷺ with regard [to what had transpired in the past]. And so, the Prophet ﷺ informed him that he ﷺ did not send him the garment for him to wear it, but rather, for ʿUmar (may Allah be pleased with him) to profit from its sale, and then purchase what he desired with its value, or give it to one of his womenfolk.

From the other benefits that we can conclude from this hadeeth is that Muslims should inquire about [matters that] they are uncertain of, so that which is right may become clear for them. Another lesson that can be extrapolated from this narration, is that we ought to strive to develop the habit of giving and donating as it will soften the hearts of people and ensure the love of the people in our lives and communities.

Lastly, to bear in mind the legitimacy of selling silk and gifting it to a woman, and, to a man, if he will gown a woman with it..

949
ʿAishah(may Allah be pleased with her) narrated: “The Messenger of Allah ﷺ entered upon me [i.e., in my room], and near me were two young servants singing the song of Buʿaath [a poem about a war between the two tribes: al-Aws and al-Khazraj]. Then he ﷺ laid down upon the bed and turned his face [around]. Then, Abu Bakr entered, and scolded me, while saying: “Musical instruments of the Shayṭaan near the Prophet ﷺ ?!” [Afterwards], the Messenger of Allah ﷺ turned his face towards him and said: “Leave them be.” Then, when Abu Bakr became inattentive, I signalled to the two servants to leave.

It was the day of ‘Eid, on which the Abyssinians were playing with shields and spears. It is either that I asked the Prophet ﷺ, or he ﷺ asked [me]: “Do you wish to watch them while playing?” [To which], I responded: “Yes.” He ﷺ [then] situated me behind him ﷺ, and my cheek was touching his ﷺ. Then, he ﷺ said [to the Abyssinians]: “Carry on! O Bani Arifdah!” [This went on] until I got tired. [Then] he ﷺ asked me: “Have you had enough?” I replied, “Yes.” He ﷺ [then] politely bid me to leave..

Commentary : The days of ‘Eid are for eating, drinking, and permissible entertainment, during which the Muslims should rejoice in the bounty and mercy of Allah and revive their spirits therein.

In this hadeeth, ʿAishah - the Mother of the Believers (may Allah be pleased with her) reports that the Prophet ﷺ entered her room on the day of ‘Eid where she had with her two young girls (prepubescent) singing chivalrous poetry which was uttered with pride during the [early] days of the Arabs - such as, the day of Buʿaath. This was a day on which an infamous war took place between the [tribes of] al-Aws and al-Khazraj [that] continued for 120 years.

The Prophet ﷺ did not disapprove of this [singing], nor did he listen to it nor pay attention to it. Meanwhile, Abu Bakr (may Allah be pleased with him) entered [the room] and came across the two young girls singing this poetry near ʿAishah(may Allah be pleased with her) in the presence of the Prophet ﷺ. He severely censured them for entertaining [the others] in the house of the Prophet in a way such as that. Afterwards, he rebuked his daughter, and blamed her by saying, “Musical instruments of the Shayṭaan near the Prophet ﷺ ?!” -meaning: the beating of the ḍaff(a type of drum), singing, and instruments [that are] taken as the flute (or other wind instruments). [The upshot being: any instrument that produces] a whistle. Abu Bakr (may Allah be pleased with him) connected [this instrument] to Shayṭaan, because it distracts [people] away from the remembrance of Allah, may He be Exalted, which is one of the works of the Shayṭaan.

Afterwards, the Prophet ﷺ did no more than order him to leave the two young girls alone and stop censuring them. Explaining this [type of reaction], we can look and see as it is [mentioned] in Saheeh al-Bukhaaree and Saheeh Muslimthat every nation has a holiday, and this ‘Eid is the holiday of the Muslim nation. It is legislated for them to celebrate it, be delighted during it, and for it to be [a day] of permissible entertainment which does not agitate the individuals [around] to a point that is inappropriate.

After that, ʿAishah(may Allah be pleased with her) indicatedto the two young girls to depart, and they left. The Arabic word used to indicate that she signalled to them is ghamz; [here refers to] [making an] indication or a gesture with the eye, eyelid, or hand.

[As for] the statement of ʿAishah(may Allah be pleased with her), “It was the day of ‘Eid”, this is from another hadeeth, but it was combined with the preceding hadith by some of the narrators, while some of the others separated the both of them [i.e., as two separate narrations].

Thereupon, she (may Allah be pleased with her) reported that it was a day of ‘Eid. Either this day followed the one with the two servant girls [i.e., the previous section of this hadith]; or, it was another. [In either case, on this day] the Abyssinians were playing with shields (daraq) and spears (hiraab), which [were] some of the weapons of war [at the time], whereas the [word] daraq is the plural of [the Arabic word] daraqah, and it is a type of shield. The [word] hiraabis the plural of [the Arabic word] harbah, and it is a small lance [with a] wide spearhead.

Then, ʿAishah(may Allah be pleased with her) reported - in a state of doubt - as to whether she asked the Prophet ﷺ; or, that it was heﷺ who asked her: ““Do you wish to watch?” - in other words - “Do you want to [go] and see the Abyssinians while they are playing?” So, when she told him of her wish on the matter, he ﷺsituated her behind him ﷺ,in order to cover her with his body. She [then] affectionately placed her cheek upon his intimately. He ﷺ then said, “Carry on! O Bani Arfidah!”, which is [either] an honorific for the Abyssinians; or, the name of their ancient forefathers. It is said: [that] they were a people [known for] their dancing. It is [also] said: [that they] were the children of slaves. The meaning [of the aforementioned quote]: [is that] they continued playing. Heﷺ did not censure them; understanding, rather, [that] it was a permission and an encouragement for them [to continue]. The Prophet ﷺ remained there as such until ʿAishah [may Allah be pleased with her] became tired and bored from watching them. So then, heﷺ asked her: “Have you had enough?” [To which], she replied: “Yes.” Then, heﷺ politely bid her to return to her home.

From the other benefits that we can conclude from this hadeeth is that the display of delight on the ‘Eid holidays is from among the rites of the religion; that in Islam, [there is] a permissible range for playing and reviving the spirit in known times by that which does not infringe against the unchangeable rules of the Sacred Law; that we should strive to show benevolence towards our wives and try to gain their love [and affection]; and that we recognize that the legality [of rejoicing and relaxing] was made to ease, give comfort, and give leniency to the people and the families on the days of 'Eid; so that the souls may be relieved. One is exempted on Eid for that which he is not exempted on other days.

Lastly, it indicates that it is permissible for the father to discipline his married daughter in the presence of her husband if the husband did not do it..

951
Al-Baraa’ (may Allah be pleased with him) narrated: “I heard the Prophet ﷺ delivering a sermon in which he said: “The first thing to be done on this day is to pray. Then, after we return from the prayer, we slaughter [our sacrificial animals]. Whoever does [this]; then, verily, they have acted in accordance with our Sunnah.” .

Commentary : The Prophet ﷺ taught us the requisites of the ‘Eid holidays, its recommended actions, and its etiquettes. From amongst [all of] these are: the time of the prayer and how to perform it on the Day of the Sacrifice [i.e., ‘Eid Al-Aḍhaa], and the time of slaughtering the sacrificial animal. The sacrifice is a religious rite from amongst the [various] Islamic religious rites. It is an appointed act of worship at a [set] time, which is not permissible [to do] before or after its appointed time.

In this hadeeth, al-Baraa’ ibn ‘Aazib(may Allah be pleased with them) reports that he heard the Prophet ﷺ while he was delivering a sermon on the day of ‘Eid Al-Aḍhaa - which is the tenth day in the month of DhuHijjah. [During the sermon], the Prophet ﷺ elucidated on his traditions and habitual actions during ‘Eid Al-Aḍhaa: [and] that is, he would first begin with the ‘Eid prayer. Then after that, heﷺ would slaughter his sacrificial animal. By doing so, then, truly, the person has acted according to the Sunnah and upon his guidance ﷺ, and thus, he has obtained the prescribed reward.

The slaughtering of the sacrificial animal is required of the one who is capable and possesses the wealth and ability to purchase a sacrificial animal. It is said: the intended [meaning] by wealth [here] is that the individual should rightfully own the nisaabof zakat [i.e., minimum amount necessary for one to pay the zakat].

The ‘Eid prayer begins after the sun has risen the height of a spear (which is close to fifteen minutes after sunrise). The scholars have defined it by the disappearance of the sun’s redness. Its time ends at the cessation of the sun’s [ascension, i.e., noon] (which is before Dhuhr, and lasts close to fifteen minutes in total). This specific prayer is a two-unit prayer that has no adhaanor iqaamah. The sermon is delivered after the prayer’s performance - differing from the congregational Friday prayer..

954
Anas ibn Maalik (may Allah be pleased with him) narrated that the Prophet ﷺ said: "Whoever slaughtered (his sacrifice) before the `Eid prayer, should slaughter again." A man stood up and said, "This is the day on which one has desire for meat," and he mentioned something about his neighbours. It seemed that the Prophet ﷺ believed him. Then the same man added, "I have a young she-goat which is dearer to me than the meat of two sheep." The Prophet (ﷺ) permitted him to slaughter it as a sacrifice. However, I do not know whether that exception was valid only for him or for others as well..

Commentary : The Prophet ﷺ taught us the requisites of the ‘Eid holidays, its recommended actions, and its etiquette. From amongst [all of] these are: the time of the prayer and how to perform it on the Day of the Sacrifice [i.e., ‘Eid Al-Aḍhaa], and the time of slaughtering the sacrificial animal. The sacrifice is a religious ritual from amongst the [various] Islamic religious rites. It is an appointed act of worship by means of a [set] time, which is not permissible [to do] before or after its appointed time.

In this hadeeth, al-Baraa’ ibn ‘Aazib(may Allah be pleased with them) reports that the Prophet ﷺ clarified that whoever slaughters his sacrificial animal before praying the ‘Eid prayer needs to slaughter another one, since the first slaughtering occurred before the appointed legislated time – that is being after the end of the ‘Eid prayer.

The ‘Eid prayer begins after the sun has risen to the height of a spear (which is close to 15 minutes after sunrise). The scholars have defined it by the disappearance of the sun’s redness. Its time ends at the cessation of the sun’s [ascension, i.e., noon] (which is before Dhuhr, and lasts close to fifteen minutes in total).

Upon hearing the clarification of the Prophet ﷺ, a man with the name of Abu Burdah ibn Niyar(may Allah be pleased with him) asked a personal question, as stated in Saheeh al-Bukhaaree and Saheeh Muslim. He explained that Eid al-Adha is a day on which people earnestly desire to eat meat; therefore, he hastened to slaughter his animal before the ‘Eid prayer to feed his family and poor neighbours. Then, he went on to explain that, as he had slaughtered the sacrificial animal, he no longer has anything except a she-goat that he considered better and more of a value than two sheep given its high price and the much meat it can produce.

In this hadeeth, the she-goat was described as a jadha’ah, which means it is less than one year old, and it is said that it means a young strong she-goat. The Prophet ﷺ believed his story and made an exception, allowing him to slaughter his she-goat [despite its age does not meet the requirements of sacrificial animals] since it was all he had. Anas ibn Maalik(may Allah be pleased with him) commented on this incident by saying that he is uncertain whether the ruling was exclusive to Abu Burdah or applicable to everyone else. This ambiguity is clarified in another version of the hadeeth that is documented in Saheeh al-Bukhaaree and Saheeh Muslim. It is narrated on the authority of al-Baraa ibn ‘Aazib(may Allah be pleased with them) that the Prophet ﷺ said at the end: “Make it a substitute for that (and sacrifice it), but it will not suffice for anyone (as a sacrifice) after you.” It explicitly states that this exception is not applicable to anyone else.

From the benefits that we can conclude from this is that a goat that is less than one year old does not qualify as a sacrificial animal. Only goats that have completed at least one year of age qualify as sacrificial animals.

It also indicates the merit of Abu Burdah(may Allah be pleased with him), and that the habit of the Prophet ﷺ is to alleviate the situation of others and make it easy on them..

1441
Abu ad-Dardā’ reported: The Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) came across a woman in the advanced stage of pregnancy at the door of a tent, and he said: "Perhaps he wants to copulate with her." They said: 'Yes.' Thereupon, the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) said: "I resolved to curse him with a curse that would enter his grave with him. How would he be his heir while this is not lawful for him?! And how would he employ him while this is not lawful for him?!".

Commentary : The Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) used to forbid his Companions from unlawful things and all that Allah, the Exalted and Glorified, prohibited. He would sometimes do so by encouraging them to obtain the reward with Allah Almighty and other times by intimidating them from the penalty and punishment of Allah.
In this Hadīth, Abu ad-Dardā’ (may Allah be pleased with him) informs that while the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) was on a journey, he passed by a woman in the advanced stage of pregnancy. She was one of the captives and was sitting at the door of a tent. The Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) said to her: "Perhaps he", meaning her owner and master who obtained her as his share of the captives. "wants to copulate with her" i.e., wants to engage in sexual intercourse with her. However, it is not lawful for the master of a pregnant captive to copulate with her until she gives birth. Then, the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) said that he resolved and intended to supplicate against him to be turned away from Allah's mercy and for that to continue after his death. He (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) intended to curse him because he failed to ascertain the emptiness of her womb, for if he copulates with his captive whom he owns while she is pregnant from someone else, he is thus neglecting to ascertain the emptiness of her womb. However, the cursing did not take place because this man was not aware of the ruling.
His words: "How would he be his heir while this is not lawful for him" means that this slave-girl captive may give birth after six months, and thus, the baby is likely from this captor, and it is likely from someone before him. So, if he is from the captor, then he is his child, and they may inherit from each other; and if he is from someone else, then he and the captor may not inherit from each other, given the lack of blood relationship.
Then, he said: "And how would he employ him," i.e., the child? If he employs him as a slave, it is probable that he came from him, and thus, he will be enslaving his child and cutting off his own lineage, and for this, he will be worthy of cursing. And if he attributes the baby to himself as his child, it is likely that he did not come from him, and thus he will be making him his heir, whereas he is not his heir, and for this, he will be worthy of cursing.
The Hadīth indicates that captivity nullifies previous ownership and dissolves marriage.
It also indicates that when there is a new owner of a female slave, it becomes due to ascertain the emptiness of her womb. So, he may not copulate with her until her womb is verified to be empty of pregnancy.
It also points out that it is forbidden to copulate with a pregnant captive until she gives birth..

1442
Judāmah bint Wahb - sister of ‘Ukkāshah - reported: I was there when the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) said to some people: "I was about to forbid Ghīlah (sexual intercourse during the breastfeeding period), so I considered that the Romans and the Persians do it without any harm done to their children thereby." Then they asked him about coitus interruptus, and the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) said: "That is the hidden Wa’d (burying a child alive).".

Commentary : The Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) was keen on benefiting the believers and showed sympathy and concern for them. He left nothing that could be of benefit to them without guiding them to it and ordering them to do it. However, he used to correct the lies and suspicions that were spread among people and inherited from the pre-Islamic era of ignorance out of guidance and politeness.
In this Hadīth, the female Companion Judāmah al-Asadiyyah bint Wahb (may Allah be pleased with her) narrates that she attended with the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) an assembly that had some of his Companions (may Allah be pleased with them). The Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) said: "I was about to," i.e., I was determined to forbid "Ghīlah", which is having intercourse with one's wife during her breastfeeding period, or a woman's conception during the breastfeeding period. The Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) was determined to forbid it because there was a popular belief at that time that it was harmful to the infant. They used to say that if the breastfeeding woman had sexual intercourse with her husband and conceived during her breastfeeding period, her milk would be spoilt and the child would get weak if he fed on it, and the Arabs would hate and avoid him. However, the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) saw that the Romans and the Persians - two great kingdoms at that time - did this without worrying about it, besides the fact that it did not cause their children any harm; so, he did not forbid it.
Then, the Companions (may Allah be pleased with them) asked him about the ruling on coitus interruptus, which means removing the man's penis from the woman's vagina before ejaculation and ejaculating outside the vagina to avoid conception. The Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) said: "That is the hidden Wa’d," considering the coitus interruptus hidden burial of a child alive because it entails wasting the sperm that Allah Almighty has prepared to be a child. So, it resembles killing a child by burying him alive. However, there is no doubt that it is less grave, and this is why he said it is hidden.
In the Two Sahīh Collections, the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) said to those who asked him about the coitus interruptus: "It does not matter if you do not do it, for every soul that is to be born up to the Day of Judgment will be born," i.e., no soul to exist in the knowledge of Allah Almighty except that it will come to exist, whether the coitus interruptus is done or not. Despite the coitus interruptus, there could be a small amount of semen ejaculated which Allah destined to form a child, and on the other hand, there could be normal ejaculation without conception. In short, coitus interruptus or normal ejaculation are equal as both do not lead to having a child except by Allah's decree..

1443
‘Āmir ibn Sa‘d reported: that Usāmah ibn Zayd informed his father Sa‘d ibn Abi Waqqās that a man came to the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) and said: "I practice coitus interruptus with my wife." The Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) said to him: "Why do you do that?" The man said: "I fear for her child - or for her children." Thereupon, the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) said: "If this was harmful, it would harm the Persians and the Romans." [In a version]: "If it was for that, then no. This does not harm the Persians or the Romans.".

Commentary : Islam is keen on the safety of Muslims and has guided them to what presents good care of children. This includes the exhortation to provide good suckling.
In this Hadīth, Usāmah ibn Zayd (may Allah be pleased with him) relates that a man came to the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) and said: "I practice coitus interruptus with my wife." Coitus interruptus is practiced by removing the male sex organ out of the woman's vulva before ejaculation, and the man ejaculates outside the vulva, to prevent pregnancy. The Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) asked him: For what reason do you do this act? The man said: "I fear for her child", who suckles from her. This is because if she gets pregnant, her milk will be spoiled, and the body of the baby will become unsound and weak. Or he meant the famous notion among the Arabs that copulation damages milk and that such milk will be a malady and if the baby drinks it, he will become ill. So, he feared that he would be thin and unwell. Thereupon, the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) said to him: "If this was harmful" - copulation or pregnancy during the period of suckling - "it would harm the Persians and the Romans", for the women of the Persians and the Romans suckle their babies while they are pregnant. So, if pregnancy or copulation during the period of suckling was harmful, it would harm their children. But the reality belies that, as they do not care to avoid this matter and their children are in good condition, and you are like them in this regard..

1451
’Umm al-Fadl reported: The Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) said: "One suckling or two or one sucking or two does not make marriage unlawful." [In a version]: (and) instead of (or)..

Commentary : Islam has made suckling a bond like blood relation, and it has established the unlawfulness of marriage by suckling like the unlawfulness of marriage due to blood relations. It has forbidden a man from marrying his sister, mother, maternal aunt, or paternal aunt by suckling, and so on.
In this Hadīth, the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) informs about the amount that does not establish the ruling on suckling that makes marriage unlawful. He says: "One suckling or two or one sucking or two does not make marriage unlawful." This was said in response to someone who asked about one suckling and two. So, he replied that they do not make marriage unlawful, whether this suckling happens before the completion of two years or beyond that. The amount that makes marriage unlawful is five sucklings taken before the completion of two years. In a Hadīth by Muslim, ‘Ā’ishah (may Allah be pleased with her) said: "In what was sent down in the Qur’an was ten known sucklings that make (marriage) unlawful. Afterwards, they were abrogated by five known ones. Then the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) passed away while they were part of what was recited in the Qur’an." And ’Umm Salamah reported: The Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) said: "The only suckling which makes marriage unlawful is what is taken from the breast and enters the bowels and is taken before the time of weaning." Narrated by At-Tirmidhi..

1452
‘Ā’ishah reported: It was revealed in the Qur’an that: ten times of known breastfeeding prohibits (marriage); then it was abrogated and replaced with five times of known (breastfeeding). The Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) died while these (words of the abrogating verse) were still being recited as part of the Qur’an..

Commentary : The Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) clarified for his Ummah all that is lawful and unlawful including the rulings of breastfeeding and the consequent rulings related to lineages.
In this Hadīth, the Mother of the Believers ‘Ā’ishah (may Allah be pleased with her) reports the amount that used to establish the ruling of breastfeeding, that makes marriage prohibited at first, whereby the woman becomes prohibited for the man to marry the same, as it is prohibited for him by consanguinity (being descended by the same ancestor). She (may Allah be pleased with her) reported that it was first revealed in the Qur’an that ten times of known breastfeeding prohibits marriage. Then, this number was abrogated, and it became five times of known breastfeeding, i.e., known and satiating during the two years of infancy. In At-Tirmidhi's Collection, ’Umm Salamah (may Allah be pleased with her) reported: The Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) said: "No prohibition results from breastfeeding, except for what penetrates the intestines from the breast before weaning." So, breastfeeding after two full years does not prohibit anything, as Allah Almighty says: {Mothers may breastfeed their children for two full years, for those who wish to complete the full term of breastfeeding.} [Surat al-Baqarah: 233] Abrogation in the Qur’an has three types: First: What is abrogated in terms of ruling and recitation. Second: That which is abrogated in terms of recitation apart from its ruling. Third: That which is abrogated in terms of ruling apart from its recitation. The first two types of abrogation are found in this Hadīth. (Ten times of known breastfeeding prohibits) was abrogated both in terms of ruling and recitation, whereas the five times of breastfeeding was abrogated in terms of recitation only and its ruling has remained.
The statement of ‘Ā’ishah (may Allah be pleased with her): "The Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) died while these (words of the abrogating verse) were still being recited as part of the Qur’an" meaning: The abrogation by the five times of breastfeeding was revealed at a very late stage to the extent that the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) died while some people were still reciting the part of the five times of breastfeeding as part of the Qur’an because of not being aware of that recent abrogation. Later, when they learned about the abrogation, they stopped reciting it and unanimously agreed that it should not be recited..

1453
Zaynab bint Abi Salamah reported: I heard' Umm Salamah, the Prophet's wife, say to 'Ā’ishah: By Allah, I do not feel comfortable to be seen by a boy who has passed the age of suckling. She said: Why? Sahlah bint Suhayl came to the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) and said: "O Messenger of Allah, by Allah, I see (displeasure) on the face of Abu Hudhayfah because of Sālim entering." She said: Thereupon, the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) said: "Suckle him." She said: "He has a beard." He said: "Suckle him, and what is on the face of Abu Hudhayfah will go away." She said: "By Allah, I did not see it on the face of Abu Hudhayfah.".

Commentary : In this Hadīth, Zaynab bint Abi Salamah (may Allah be pleased with her) informs that she heard her mother' Umm Salamah, the Prophet's wife, swearing to 'Ā’ishah (may Allah be pleased with her) and saying: "By Allah, I do not feel comfortable" i.e., I do not like it; "to be seen by a boy" from non-Mahram (unrelated) males "who has passed the age of suckling" i.e., he is no longer in need of suckling. Thereupon, ‘Ā’ishah said to ’Umm Salamah (may Allah be pleased with both of them): "Why?" i.e., why are you saying this, whereas there is nothing wrong with that if you suckle him or he is suckled by someone who makes him a Mahram (related and non-marriageable) to you? This is evidenced by the fact that "Sahlah bint Suhayl", the wife of Abu Hudhayfah, came to the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) and swore to him that she would see dislike on the face of Abu Hudhayfah because of their foster son Sālim continuing to enter the house as he would usually do when he was young, and he now reached adulthood - particularly after verses had been revealed prohibiting adoption. Thereupon, the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) said to her: "Suckle him" to be your son by suckling. She said to him: "He has a beard" for he is an adult man. The Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) said to her: "Suckle him and what is on the face of Abu Hudhayfah will go away" i.e., the sign of dislike will vanish from him. Sahlah did so and then she swore that she did not find the sign of dislike on the face of Abu Hudhayfah after she had suckled him.
This Hadīth is problematic in terms of explaining it and deriving rulings therefrom, and difference of opinion actually arose over it among the Prophet's wives. ’Umm Salamah and some of the Prophet's wives believed that this was a dispensation from the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) to the wife of Abu Hudhayfah alone, and they held that there should be no suckling for adults and that the suckling that makes a person a Mahram is the one provided in young age and which grows the bones and builds the body and flesh.
As for ‘Ā’ishah (may Allah be pleased with her), she - as reported here - held that suckling causes prohibition of the same things made prohibited by blood relations, whether the suckled one is a child or an adult. She cited as evidence the story of Sālim, the freed slave of Abu Hudhayfah (may Allah be pleased with both of them) and that the ruling is not exclusively restricted to them.
What appears to be right - and Allah knows best - is that suckling of adults does not count, has no effect, and causes no prohibition, and that true suckling is that which occurs during babyhood; and what happened in the story of Sālim is particularly restricted to him and does not apply to anyone other than him. The Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) affirmed that not every suckling causes prohibition. In a Hadīth in the Two Sahīh Collections, he said: "Indeed, suckling is from hunger" i.e., the suckling that counts is the one that occurs at the time when milk is relied upon for food and in the amounts that affect the growth of the baby's body.
The Hadīth points out that suckling causes prohibition of the same things made prohibited by blood relations.
It demonstrates that there is a difference of opinion regarding the suckling of adults and its resultant effects..

1454
Zaynab bint Abi Salamah reported that her mother ’Umm Salamah, the Prophet's wife, reported: The other wives of the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) refused to let anyone privately enter their houses by such suckling. They said to ‘Ā’ishah: "By Allah, we do not see this except as a dispensation which the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) gave to Sālim in particular. No one would enter our houses or see us by such suckling.".

Commentary : The Hadīth addresses an incident that took place during the Prophet's lifetime, namely suckling an adult, which means suckling a person after the age of two years and the time of weaning, and beyond, so that he can be Mahram - like suckling in the age of suckling. ’Umm Salamah, the Prophet's wife, informs that all the wives of the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) refused to let anyone privately enter their houses by such suckling that is given to a person after the age of weaning, for they were commanded to observe Hijab. An exception was ‘Ā’ishah (may Allah be pleased with her), who held the view that such suckling makes marriage unlawful like suckling during babyhood. They swore to ‘Ā’ishah (may Allah be pleased with her) and said: "By Allah, we do not see this except as a dispensation which the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) gave to Sālim", the freed slave of Abu Hudhayfah (may Allah be pleased with him), "in particular"; not generally for everyone. Therefore, we will not let anyone enter our houses or see us by such suckling.
The dispensation which the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) gave to Sālim in particular is mentioned in a Hadīth narrated by Muslim in his Sahīh Collection, in which ‘Ā’ishah (may Allah be pleased with her) reported: that Sālim, the freed slave of Abu Hudhayfah, was with Abu Hudhayfah and his family in their house. His wife Sahlah the daughter of Suhayl came to the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) and said: "Sālim has reached the age of manhood and understands what men understand. He enters our house, and I think that Abu Hudhayfah is not comfortable with that." Thereupon, the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) said to her: "Suckle him and what Abu Hudhayfah feels will go away." She returned and said: "Indeed, I suckled him, and what Abu Hudhayfah felt went away."
It is reported in a Hadīth narrated by Abu Dāwūd that ‘Ā’ishah (may Allah be pleased with her) would ask the daughters of her sisters and brothers to suckle whomever she liked to enter her house - even if he was an adult - five times, and then he would enter her house. However, ’Umm Salamah and the other wives of the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) refused to let anyone enter their houses by such suckling unless the suckling occurred in the cradle. Hence, the statements and attitudes of other wives of the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) constituted evidence that the suckling of an adult does not count, has no weight, and does not establish the unlawfulness of marriage; and that true suckling happens in babyhood, and what happened in the story of Sālim is an exceptional peculiarity that was limited to him and does not apply to anyone else. The Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) emphasized that not every suckling makes marriage unlawful. In a Hadīth in the Two Sahīh Collections, he said: "Indeed, suckling is from hunger" i.e., the suckling that counts is the one that occurs at the time when milk is relied upon for food and in the amounts that affect the growth of the baby's body..

1456
Abu Sa‘īd al-Khudri reported: that at the battle of Hunayn, the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) sent an army to Awtās. They encountered an enemy, fought, attained victory over them, and took female captives from them. Some of the Companions of the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon them) seemed to have refrained from having intercourse with them, as they had husbands among the polytheists. So, Allah Almighty revealed in this regard: {Also [prohibited are] married women except for female slaves you may own} [Surat an-Nisā': 24], i.e., they are lawful for you when their waiting periods come to an end..

Commentary : The Shariah regulated the religious rulings regarding times of peace and war. Since war results in captives from the men of the enemy and their women, the Qur’an and the Sunnah clarified the rulings concerning them. It prohibited copulation with pregnant and married female captives until they gave birth or until non-pregnant captives were verified to be non-pregnant by having menses.
In this Hadīth, Abu Sa‘īd al-Khudri (may Allah be pleased with him) informs that during the battle of Hunayn - which took place in the eighth Hijri year, after the Conquest of Makkah, between the Muslims and the people of Tā’if among the two tribes of Hawāzin and Thaqīf, in a valley called Hunayn, which is situated between Makkah and Tā’if; as the disbelievers had gone out with their property, women, and children; and after Hawāzin and Thaqīf were defeated and Allah granted victory to His Prophet and the Muslims, the fleeing disbelievers withdrew to the valley of Awtās, which is close to Hunayn - the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) sent an army to them, and they encountered an enemy from the disbelievers, whom they fought, overcame, and defeated. Among their spoils were captives from the polytheist women. Some of the Prophet's Companions refrained - out of fear of committing a sin - from having intercourse with them because they were married women, and a married woman is not lawful for anyone other than her husband. So, they thought that their marriage to their husbands was not severed. Therefore, Allah Almighty revealed verses demonstrating the ruling on copulation with those they refrained from: {Also [prohibited are] married women except for female slaves you may own.} [Surat an-Nisā’: 24] i.e., prohibited for you is marrying married women, except for the women you possess by taking them into captivity, as their marriage to their disbelieving husbands is dissolved. They become lawful for you after their wombs are verified to be empty of the semen of the disbelieving husbands, either by childbirth, in case the woman is pregnant, or by one menstrual period, if she is not pregnant.
The Hadīth indicates that the marriage of polytheists is dissolved if their wives are taken captive, as they go into the ownership of their captors.
It shows how a person should pause, search, and ask about any matter when he is not certain of the reason behind it and its ruling. This is the attitude of anyone who fears Allah Almighty..

1460
‘Abdul-Malik ibn Abi Bakr ibn ‘Abdur-Rahmān reported: that when the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) married ’Umm Salamah and she stayed with him and it was the morning, he said to her: "You are not humbled in the estimation of your husband. If you wish, I will stay with you for seven nights; and if you wish, I will stay with you for three nights, and then visit the others in turn." She said: "Stay for three nights.".

Commentary : The Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) was both fair and merciful in dealing with his wives. In this Hadīth, the Tābi‘i ‘Abdul-Malik ibn Abi Bakr ibn ‘Abdur-Rahmān relates that when the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) married' Umm Salamah Hind bint Abi' Umayyah (may Allah be pleased with her) after her husband Abu Salamah (may Allah be pleased with him) had died, he stayed in her house for three nights, which was his Sunnah in case the woman was previously married; then when he wanted to leave her house and go to the others, he noticed that she considered the three nights to be little. So, he said to her: "You are not humbled in the estimation of your husband" i.e., you will not be underestimated and your right will not be lost at all. Then the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) gave her the choice, saying: If you wish, I will stay with you for seven nights" - and stay with other wives of mine for the same period - "and if you wish, I will stay with you for three nights, and then visit the others in turn." i.e., if you are content with these three nights, I will go to my wives in turn, one night at a time, till I come back to you. She said: "Stay for three nights" i.e., I am content with the three nights, to avoid his long absence from her..

1460
‘Abdul-Malik ibn Abi Bakr ibn ‘Abdur-Rahmān reported: When the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) married Umm Salamah, he entered upon her, and when he wanted to leave, she took hold of his garment. The Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) said: If you wish, I can stay longer with you and count it for you; a virgin is entitled to seven, whereas a previously married woman is entitled to three..

Commentary : The Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) set the greatest example in fulfilling justice between his wives and putting the family relations in order in case of polygamy.
In this Hadīth, the Tābi‘i Abu Bakr ibn ‘Abdur-Rahmān (may Allah be pleased with him) reports that when the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) married ’Umm Salamah Hind bint Abi ’Umayyah (may Allah be pleased with her) after the death of her husband, Abu Salamah (may Allah be pleased with him), he entered upon her and consummated the marriage with her. After spending three days with her, he wanted to leave her house for the house of another one of his wives; however, she took hold of his garment so he would stay with her. He (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) clarified to ’Umm Salamah (may Allah be pleased with her) what she was entitled to regarding his overnight stay with her, saying: "If you wish" to have more than three days "I can stay longer with you and count it for you," i.e., calculate for you the total time of my stay with you because of this extra time. In other words: I extend my stay and the rest of my wives become entitled to the same number of days. Then, he informed her that a virgin wife - who had not been previously married - was entitled to seven nights than his other wives if he had sexual intercourse with her; whereas the Thayyib - who had been previously married - was entitled to three days.
In another Hadīth narrated by Muslim, when the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) married ’Umm Salamah and she stayed with him (during the night), he said to her: "Indeed, you are not inferior in the sight of your family," i.e., you will not be underestimated, and none of your right will be lost; rather, you will take it in full. He then gave her the choice to stay for three days with her without having to make up for them or to stay for seven days with her and make it up for the rest of his wives. The three have the privilege of not having to make up for them, while the seven have the privilege of being successive and fulfilling perfect intimacy. ' Umm Salamah said: "Stay three," so she chose the three because they were not to be made up for, and he would, thus, return to her sooner since he would spend the night with them in turn then come to her. However, if she had chosen seven, he would not return to her except after making it up (days) for his other wives, and he would, thus, be far from her for a long time.
The virgin is exclusively granted seven days given her shyness, which requires extra time, patience, sensibleness, and gentleness, besides the fact that one feels inclined to stay longer with her so that he can stay with her for up to seven days in a row. On the other hand, the previously married woman had already experienced marriage, and her need for intimacy is lesser, besides the fact that one is less attached to her than to the virgin. However, given that she is not familiar yet with the company, she is honored by extending the stay, which is three. After that, he has to start dividing his time, whether he has one, two, or three wives before her.
The Hadīth indicates the recommendation of showing kindness to one's family, children, and others..

1462
Anas reported: The Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) had nine wives. Giving them an equal share of his time meant he would not return to the first woman except on the ninth day. So, they used to gather every night at the house of the one to whom he would come. He was at 'Ā’ishah's house. When Zaynab came, he stretched his hand towards her, thereupon, she said: This is Zaynab. So, the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) withdrew his hand. There was an altercation between the two until their voices became loud. Iqāmah (second call for prayer) was pronounced for prayer and it happened that Abu Bakr was passing by and he heard their voices. He said: O Messenger of Allah, come for prayer and throw dust in their mouths. So, the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) went out and ‘Ā’ishah said: Now the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) will finish his prayer, and Abu Bakr will come and do such-and-such to me. When the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) finished his prayer, Abu Bakr came to her and spoke to her in harsh words and said: Is this how you behave?!.

Commentary : The Companions (may Allah be pleased with them) were keen on reporting all the Prophet's acts, even what used to happen inside the house of his everyday life affairs. The purpose was to know how the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) used to deal with various situations in life to follow his example.
In this Hadīth, Anas ibn Mālik (may Allah be pleased with him) reports that the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) had nine wives. When giving each wife her share and turn on her day and night, he would not return to the wife who took the first turn in his overnight stay except after nine nights, given that he used to stay a day and a night with each of them. It was the habit of the Prophet's wives to gather every night at the house of the one with whom the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) would stay to enjoy his company and be close to him, then, each would go to her room.
One time, the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) was at ‘Ā’ishah's house, on her day and night, and his wives gathered there as usual. When his wife Zaynab bint Jahsh (may Allah be pleased with her) came, the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) stretched his hand to her by way of fondling. It is said: The Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) thought it was ‘Ā’ishah because it was night and it was her night and turn. So, ‘Ā’ishah said: "This" towards whom you stretched your hand is "Zaynab", as if ‘Ā’ishah (may Allah be pleased with her) criticized the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) for fondling someone other than her since it was her night and her turn in her share of the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him). So, the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) did not stretch his hand towards Zaynab (may Allah be pleased with her) and stopped. Thereupon, Zaynab and 'Ā’ishah (may Allah be pleased with them) altercated, disagreed, and argued due to jealousy "until their voices became loud," i.e., they were making immense noise.
Meanwhile, the time for prayer was due, and the Iqāmah was pronounced, and Abu Bakr (may Allah be pleased with him) passed by while they were in such a state of arguing noisily and loudly. So, he heard the voice of ‘Ā’ishah and Zaynab disputing. Abu Bakr (may Allah be pleased with him) said: "O Messenger of Allah, come out for prayer" and throw dust in their mouths, which is an indirect reference to rebuking and putting an end to their dispute and loud voices. "Hathyah": the amount that fills both hands.
So, the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) went out and ‘Ā’ishah (may Allah be pleased with her) said to those who were with her, after the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) had left with Abu Bakr (may Allah be pleased with him): "Now the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) will finish his prayer, and Abu Bakr will come and do such-and-such to me," i.e. when Abu Bakr finishes his prayer with the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him), he will come to me and rebuke and scold me severely for what I did, as a father would typically discipline his daughter.
‘Ā’ishah's fears came true, as when the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) finished his prayer, Abu Bakr (may Allah be pleased with him) went to her, blamed her, rebuked her, and scolded her severely for raising her voice in the presence of the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him). Abu Bakr said to ‘Ā’ishah: "Is this how you behave?!" He was blaming her for her dispute with Zaynab in the Prophet's presence.
The Hadīth clarifies the Prophet's fulfillment of justice between his wives and his kindness and courteousness with them.
It signifies how a husband should give each of his wives an equal share of his time.
It also highlights the virtue of Abu Bakr (may Allah be pleased with him) for showing compassion towards the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him).
Moreover, it shows that the less qualified person could call the attention of the more qualified one to what is good for him..

1463
‘Ā’ishah reported: I never saw a woman I would like to be in whose Mislākh (skin) more than Sawdah bint Zam‘ah. She was a woman characterized by sharpness. As she became old, she gave her day with the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) to ‘Ā’ishah. She said: "O Messenger of Allah, I have granted my day with you to ‘Ā’ishah." So, the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) allocated two days to ‘Ā’ishah; her own day and that of Sawdah..

Commentary : The Mother of the Believers Sawdah bint Zam‘ah, wife of the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) was one of the ascetic and devout worshippers. The Prophet's wives acknowledged each other's merits and were quite aware of what distinguished each one of them from the others.
In this Hadīth, ‘Ā’ishah (may Allah be pleased with her) reports that she never wished or liked to be like any of the Prophet's wives or in her place except for Sawdah bint Zam‘ah, as she wished and loved to be like her in worship and obedience, and in her manner and conduct. "Mislākh": skin, and it means: that I become her in terms of the qualities that she admired about her. Her saying: "She was a woman characterized by sharpness" is a way of describing Sawdah, not criticizing her. She meant by that to highlight her strength and solidity in challenging situations. When Sawdah grew old, she granted her day with the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) to ‘Ā’ishah. Sawdah (may Allah be pleased with her) did this out of her sagacity, as she gave her day to the woman who loved the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) most. So, ‘Ā’ishah (may Allah be pleased with her) had two days with the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him): her day and Sawdah's day. This does not mean that they were two days in a row; rather, what is meant is clarifying the number of ‘Ā’ishah's days with the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) in each of his rounds with his wives (may Allah be pleased with them).
The Hadīth points out that Ghibtah (envy free from malice) is in goodness, and it means one's wish to be like another in his praiseworthy qualities.
It also clarifies how the Prophet's wives loved him and sought to please him, and it guides the wives to seek to please her husband by doing what he likes..

1467
Abdullah ibn ‘Amr reported that the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) said: "This world is an enjoyment, and the best of its enjoyments is a righteous woman.".

Commentary : The Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) guided men and youth to choose the righteous woman for marriage because she is one of the greatest blessings bestowed upon man in this world.
In this Hadīth, the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) reports that "the world is a Matā‘," and Matā‘ is what one benefits from and enjoys, and the best worldly enjoyment for man is the religious wife, who gladdens him by looking at her and by her obedience. She is chaste, guarding herself in his absence, and she is honest, protecting his wealth. This is the essence of the righteous woman; she is righteous in her religion and herself and a reformer of her husband's conditions.
Here, he mentioned the woman in specific terms, and qualified her with righteousness to make it known that she is deemed the evilest worldly enjoyment if she does not have such a characteristic. This is because if righteousness does not prevent her from evil, she becomes evil itself. In this case, she does not push her husband or urge him except towards evil, and the least she can do is to make him crave this world until he puts himself into destruction therein..

1468
Abu Hurayrah (may Allah be pleased with him) reported that the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) said: Whoever believes in Allah and the Last Day, if he witnesses something, let him speak good or remain silent. And take care of women, for the woman was created from a rib and the most crooked part of the rib is its top. If you attempt to straighten it, you will break it; and if you leave it, it will remain crooked. So, take good care of women..

Commentary : The Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) advises us to adopt manners and morals that enhance familiarity and love between Muslims.
In this Hadīth, the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) informs that "whoever believes in Allah" Who created him perfectly, in terms of belief and acts, by testifying that there is no god but Allah and that Muhammad is the Messenger of Allah, and by adhering to the pillars of faith and its characteristics as a whole including words and deeds;
and believes in "the Last Day," which is the Day of Judgment to which he will return and where he will receive recompense for his deeds, and here, belief in Allah and the Last Day were mentioned in particular, among all other things that one should believe in; in reference to the beginning and the end of all things, i.e., if he believes in Allah Who created him and that He will recompense him on the Day of Judgment for his good and evil deeds, then, let him speak good or remain silent. This wording is meant to encourage and promote adherence to the command or the prohibition mentioned in the Hadīth. "If he witnesses something" in general, whether between two, a group, or the like, and there is a need for him to speak about it, then let him consider it carefully; if there is goodness in his words, then he should speak, or else he should keep silent.
The Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) used to advise men to treat their wives kindly in compliance with the commands of Islam. Given the fact that women are originally created with crookedness, the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) drew attention to that saying: "Take care of women" with the following addition in Al-Bukhāri version: "good care", i.e., advise each other to treat them kindly. "For the woman was created from a rib," which is one of the chest bones. In other words, there is crookedness in their original creation. "And the most crooked part of the rib is its top", this description is meant as an exaggeration in describing such crookedness and to emphasize the probability of breaking because the difficulty of straightening the top is apparent. It is said: Perhaps this is meant to refer to the woman's upper part that has her head and tongue, from where the crookedness springs. It is also said: That the form of "A‘waj" (crooked) here is meant as a description not to indicate preference, as colors and defects do not have forms indicating preference. If you try to straighten the rib and make it straight, it will break. Similarly, if you want a woman to be perfectly straight in morals, this will lead to breaking her, which is divorcing her. as mentioned in Muslim's version. "And if you leave it, it will remain crooked" as it was originally created, so it is impossible to straighten it. This is set as an example of the crookedness in women's morals; if sought to be upright, this could lead to divorce. Then, the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) said: "So, take good care of women," i.e.; there is no way except enduring this crookedness patiently. Hence, this should be tolerated with patience, and women should be treated benevolently and kindly.
Or it could be referring to gentle redress; refraining from exaggeration that leads to breaking and from negligence that leads to persistence in crookedness. To sum up, he should not neglect her crookedness if she exceeds her natural deficiency level by committing sins or abandoning duties; however, what is meant is that he should neglect her crookedness regarding what is permissible.
The Hadīth implies guidance to maintaining one's tongue and protecting it from idle talk.
It also sheds light on the importance of appeasement in attracting souls and winning hearts.
Moreover, it shows how women could be handled through pardon and patience with their crookedness..

1469
Abu Hurayrah reported that the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) said: "Let not a believing man hate a believing woman. If he dislikes one of her characteristics, he will be pleased with another - Or he said: another one.".

Commentary : Faith calls to noble morals. Thus, no believing man or woman is free from good manners, as faith requires the existence of praiseworthy qualities in them.
In this Hadīth, the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) says: "Let not a believing man Yafrak a believing woman," and "fark" means hatred and dislike. The "believing man" and the "believing woman" here refer to the husband and wife. It was said: This is a form of negation that denotes prohibition, i.e., she must not be totally hated. It was also said: It is a prohibition, i.e., the husband must not absolutely hate his wife in such a way that leads to oppressing, abandoning, and turning away from her. Then, the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) explained this by saying that if the husband hates a bad quality in her, he will find another quality that pleases him. She could be rude but at the same time religious, pretty, chaste, or kind to him, or the like. So, he approves of this good quality that suits him and, thus, faces what he dislikes about her with what he likes about her. In this way, what he likes of her good qualities will help him patiently endure what he dislikes of her bad qualities. So, he forgives the bad for the sake of the good and overlooks what he dislikes for the sake of what he likes. And in this way, he will not absolutely hate her to the extent that he breaks up with her.
The Hadīth encourages good treatment and companionship..